Perimenopause is a natural—but often confusing—part of life for many women. If you've been wondering why your cycle is changing, you're suddenly wide awake at 3 a.m., or your moods feel more intense than usual, your body might be transitioning toward menopause.
Let's break down what perimenopause is, how to recognize it, and what you can do to feel more balanced and in control during this phase. The good news is that there are effective ways to manage these changes, allowing you to continue living a vibrant, healthy life.
What is Perimenopause?
Perimenopause, also called the menopausal transition, refers to the time leading up to menopause—when your body gradually reduces estrogen production and stops ovulating regularly. This stage marks the winding down of your reproductive years.
While menopause is officially defined as going 12 consecutive months without a period, perimenopause can last for several years, typically beginning in a woman's 40s, though some women notice changes as early as their mid-30s.
Hormone fluctuations during this transition can cause a wide range of physical and emotional symptoms. Some are well-known, like hot flashes, while others are more subtle, like forgetfulness or changes in sexual desire.
10 Common Signs of Perimenopause
No two women experience perimenopause the same way, but here are some of the most common signs to watch for:
- Hot flashes and night sweats
Sudden waves of heat, often with sweating and chills, can happen day or night. These can disrupt sleep and daily comfort. - Sleep disturbances
Hormonal changes, night sweats, and general restlessness can make it harder to fall or stay asleep, leading to fatigue and irritability. - Mood swings, anxiety, and depression
Emotional ups and downs are common. These may stem from hormonal shifts, sleep loss, or life stressors. Some women experience new or worsening anxiety or depressive symptoms. - Brain fog and memory issues
Trouble concentrating, forgetfulness, and mental fatigue can occur, often tied to poor sleep or hormonal fluctuations. - Vaginal and urinary changes
Lower estrogen can cause vaginal dryness, pain during sex, and increased susceptibility to urinary tract infections or bladder leaks. - Sexual changes
Many women experience reduced libido, sensitivity, or arousal. These shifts may stem from physical discomfort, emotional changes, or both. - Physical and metabolic changes
Weight gain, especially around the abdomen, slowed metabolism, and changes in body composition can occur. Some also notice thinning hair, dry skin, or brittle nails. - Bone and heart health risks
Declining estrogen affects bone density and cholesterol levels, increasing the risk of osteoporosis and heart disease over time.
When to Talk to Your Doctor
Some women breeze through perimenopause with few symptoms.
Others face challenges that disrupt their work, relationships, or
self-confidence. If symptoms like hot flashes, anxiety, or vaginal discomfort
are interfering with your quality of life, it's time to speak with a healthcare
provider.
Remember: You don't need to suffer in silence or "just deal
with it." There are effective ways to manage symptoms and support your
well-being through this transition.
Treatment Options for Perimenopause
There's no one-size-fits-all solution, but there are several
options to help manage symptoms:
- Over the Counter Products
Vaginal moisturizers and lubricants can ease dryness. Herbal supplements like black cohosh or red clover may offer relief—but consult your provider before trying them. - Prescription
Medications
Birth control pills can regulate periods and reduce hot flashes or mood swings. Other medications may target specific symptoms like insomnia or anxiety. - Hormone Replacement Therapy
HRT can include estrogen, progesterone, and sometimes testosterone, depending on your specific symptoms and needs. Estrogen therapy, delivered via pills, patches, or creams, can significantly reduce hot flashes, vaginal dryness, and sleep problems, while progesterone can help with mood, anxiety, and sleep, and testosterone can support energy, muscle mass, and libido. - Lifestyle Adjustments
Strength training, yoga, and pelvic floor exercises can support your changing body. Reducing alcohol and caffeine may improve sleep. A nutrient-rich diet and regular movement can help maintain energy and stabilize mood.
Embracing the Transition
Perimenopause is a major life shift, but it doesn't have to
be a struggle. With the right support and care, you can feel strong, confident,
and empowered throughout the transition—and well into the years beyond.
If you think you might be experiencing perimenopause, or if
your symptoms are affecting your daily life, don't wait. Talk to your
healthcare provider about your options and take charge of your well-being.
Need Help Navigating Perimenopause?
At Ascend Medical, we offer personalized care for women in
every stage of life—including virtual visits, hormone therapy, and wellness
support. We accept insurance and make it easy to get the help you need, from
the comfort of home.
Book an appointment today to start feeling better.